Attitude
and Behavior are the most important factors that makes people happy or unhappy.
Here you see the huge difference in attitude between the happy and unhappy people.
So, to keep happy you have to change your attitude.
As per Psychology Today, University of California
specialist Sonja Lyubomirsky states: "40% of our ability for happiness is
within our power to change."
I am here to explain you the common habits and behavior of unhappy people so that by changing your behavior, you can live happy.
Thinking that life is so hard.
Unhappy people have
strong believe that life is not easy and they are only the victims of
hardships. This sense of victim will stuck them into “what happened to me”
instead of finding problem-solving that leads to overcoming challenges.
So happy people finding the way to resolve their problems with perseverance and keep struggling to better their life.
Comparing yourself with others.
Unhappy people spend their too much time in comparing themselves with others. This cause jealousy and resentment in their behavior.
Lack of trust.
Unhappy people trust on nobody leading to the feelings of tension, anxiety and isolation. Trust on others build better relationship and give you the opportunity to progress.
Focus on negative aspects.
Unhappy people focus on what’s wrong and ignores the right. They berate themselves on daily basis and not making efforts to achieve their goals.
No Physical Exercise.
Physical exercise is very important in the maintenance of your physical and mental health. Successful people regularly take physical exercise which keeps them active and they resolve their problems better than as compared to other people.
Constantly Complaining.
You see unhappy people are constantly complaining of What’s happened to them and What’s they dream. They do not live in the now. They wonder why things are not changing, however they have no goal set. Not involved in activities which improves their skills and waste their whole time in complaints.
Fear of Future.
Imagining the terrifying images of your future in the mind, is very common among unhappy people. They instead of planning, wasting time in fearing.
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